We all started from scratch at some point, with dreams, goals, and many questions. That’s where a mentor comes in – someone who has already walked the path and can help you chart your own path.
A good mentor doesn’t tell you what to do. They show you how to think, grow, and see clearly – even when everything seems blurry.
What does a mentor offer?
✅ Knowledge from practice: They can share experiences and lessons that you won’t find in any university textbook.
✅ Contacts that matter: Their network can put you in touch with key people in your field.
✅ Clear vision: They see things more objectively and help you see the “big picture”.
✅ Support in critical moments: They are there when you feel like you’re losing your way – to remind you that you can.
✅ Faster progress: With the right guidance, you can avoid unnecessary mistakes and take a step forward.
What to watch out for?
🔸 If the mentor tries to impose his own opinions on you, without really listening, he can disorient you.
🔸 If you rely too much on him, you may not develop your own autonomy and judgment.
🔸 If there is no shared philosophy or values, the relationship will hardly work.
How do you find the right mentor?
👤 Look for people you admire professionally.
🏫 Teachers or professors can act as natural mentors.
💼 Go to workshops, networking events and conferences – that’s where the most authentic connections happen.
📣 Speak up! Tell people you trust what you’re looking for – you never know who they might recommend.
🌐 Also check out mentoring platforms – there are many that bring young people together with experienced professionals.
What to expect (and what not) from a mentor:
🚫 They won’t make decisions for you.
✅ They’ll teach you how to make better decisions yourself.
🚫 They won’t give you ready-made solutions.
✅ They’ll give you the tools to build your own.
✅ They’ll tell you the truth, even if it’s not always what you want to hear.
✅ They’ll be there to lift you up – not to selfishly guide you.
If you have a person who inspires you, ask them to be your mentor.
It could be the most defining decision you’ll make for your career and personal development.